What Do You Think?

Those who are dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are         controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. Romans 8:5 NLT

There were times I felt dominated by poor choices, and sin drove me. As a young mom, my temper dominated rather than patience or self-control. I knew the Lord, but I didn’t allow the Holy Spirit to control. I thought I could get my kids in line by my emotions rather than by firm boundaries. It just seemed easier to yell.

I find the word think helpful in Romans 8:5. After all, we aren’t just what we eat. What we think defines and leads us. As the Bible says, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7. So how do we think about things that please the Holy Spirit?

First, what we take in makes a big difference. Reading the Bible is a great way to center our thoughts on godly not sinful things. . .  really reading it, not just skimming it to check a box to say you did. One way that helps me focus when reading scripture is taking notes. As I read, I write down things that stand out, thoughts that come to me, or whatever the Spirit reveals that I’ve been missing. Create a quiet space with few distractions. I try and read my Bible early in the day, before life gets rolling.

It’s wise to guard what you’re watching on TV or your phone. If your news source, social media, etc. cause you to get riled up or slip into sin, take a break or find different outlets for info or entertainment.

Second, praying gives us a chance to tell God what’s on our minds and hear Him as He leads our thoughts or words. I use 3 x 5 cards to guide me. Others have a daily list. Some friends like to follow the Holy Spirit’s guidance. Prayer isn’t a magical formula. It is talking to the Lord and listening for His instructions or admonitions. Confess to God right away when He reminds you of sin. Pour out your problems to God—He cares for you.

Find a partner to share with and gain support from. A mature Christian friend will help keep you accountable in areas where you struggle. Just make sure you agree this is only between the two of you. It feels good to tell someone when you’ve messed up, knowing she listens from a place of caring encouragement.

So what do you think? Let’s decide to take steps to end cycles of sin and bring pleasure to God. The Lord promises life and peace. (Romans 8:6)