I ran across this verse in the book of Proverbs chapter 15. “Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many advisers bring success.”
This was a lesson learned the hard way for me. There were many times I could have and should have sought advice from family and friends, our pastor, or a counselor but instead wrestled alone in prayer about a concern or decision for many months, even years. Looking back, most of the choices turned out alright in the end. But it took more time than it might have to get direction. Part of the problem was fear. Part of the problem was my pride.
There was a stretch in my life I struggled with anger. I just could not pray my way through. Finally I sought counseling. It felt good to talk about it, get biblical instruction, and pray with someone else. It did my heart good to share the burden. My relationships improved dramatically.
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Do you find it hard to tell family, friends, a counselor, or your pastor when you need help? Take my advice – find someone who will listen.
A Goldilocks Life 